3 Thoughtful Ways to Stay in Touch

Now more than ever, staying in touch with your friends and family is a really massive thing and something that we are having to put a little more thought into. Especially those friends we would usually see daily that we haven’t seen for months – definitely missing them all! It’s really important for everyone’s wellbeing that we put a bit of effort into checking in on our friends at this time. These are a couple ideas other than just picking up the phone and giving them a call, which is just as lovely!

Write them a letter: Ever wanted a pen pal? Now is the perfect time! Get out an actual pen and paper and just chat as if your friend was sat opposite you. You might think you haven’t been up to much (like everyone else!) but tell them about the latest series you binged watched, book you read or dinner you ate. It’s nice just to share some of the simple daily details of life with your bestie and to hear about what they’ve enjoyed too! You can even go out and post it on your daily walk too – win, win!

Send them a meme, gif or Tiktok: One of the simplest forms of letting someone know you are thinking of them. I don’t know about you but when I get a notification that a friend has tagged me in something funny it really gives me a boost! I always think it’s so sweet to know that someone has thought of you, you know? Just whilst scrolling I suddenly popped into their head! That means a lot in 2020! They’re usually really funny and scarily accurate, so definitely worth giving your friends a simple tag in something online to brighten their day.

Post them a special gift: If you want to send something special then now is a perfect time, whether it be something you have homemade or order it online. If they live locally you can always take it to their door and then stand down the driveway! There are lots of different things that you can send online whether it be a recent book find on Amazon or a letterbox brownie from a local bakery business. You can find lots of food delivery companies online or trying Instagram, Facebook groups or Etsy to find some local places to support. Getting post at this time is literally SUCH A THRILL, so it’s nice to pass on that joy!

Take care,

Amy

Happy Galentines Day!

Give me a holiday and I will celebrate it. It’s simply what I do. Galentines is a trend I’m jumping on board with in 2019. I’m not going overboard with bunting, themed jumpers or extravagant gifts but I think its never a bad idea to celebrate your bestie and build people up. Today I simply want to remind you to tell one of your best friends or family members that you love them and are grateful for their presence in your life. It’s as simple as that.

I’ve opted for a card that I’ve sent via Moonpig- they actually had specific Galentines cards this year! I LOVE writing a card and I think the art of letter writing is really special, personal and has the ability to make someones day. I would suggest everyone taking the time out to write a letter every so often, it means so much more than an email. I sent a card to my BFF, who is coping with a break-up, so this is the perfect excuse to shower her with some positivity, confidence and gratitude. Valentines is made-up to be all about that romantic love, but we should just be celebrating love in all its forms including those BFF-ships that get us through the daily grind.

If you’re feeling super generous then why not make up a care package, give some chocolate or nail polish to your besties as a token of your friendship. Spontaneous gifts are often ones that have the biggest impact. I’ve seen SO much on Pinterest about Galentines day parties and brunches, that are simply about girls getting together to celebrate girls. I think this is probably mainly in America, they know how to make the most out of a celebration.

Whether you want low key, all out PART-AY or you’re still like, what? I know you’re probably thinking UGH another commercial ploy that I’ve fallen for- yes, Mum I can see your point- BUT spreading kindness is never a bad idea in my book. I hope you are simply reminded to share some gratitude for your favourite people today, in whatever way you can! Obviously, like with Valentines, you don’t need a specific day for these things but it’s always good to be reminded not to take friendship for granted.

Happy Galentines Day!

Amy